The Other Side of Glamour

If Happiness is water,i wish i could get a soak of it.But it isn't.Long ago,when i was a little kid in school days,I use to be infact the first culprit to object people saying,"Money is the root cause of all the evils".No I cried,its a disgusting starkly annoying phrase.Tell me how many people can survive without money.If you don't have it,you even have not enough confidence to face a crowd.I use to say Tagore's famous prose,"where the mind is without fear,head is held high"and where the world is without money,head is always towards earth.I grew up,always looking to be someone surrounded by island of wealth.Money to me can be everything,it talks,it makes you bold,it gives you power,fame ,name ,popularity,relationship,what else nameless things.
But today,my perspective towards wealth has totally changed.Even if the world becomes a little place and a competitive one,I would be brave enough to not crave or go after wealth.Just a place to walk and little money to survive would be my contented assets.But let me justify so that you would not mistaken me and say,"then please deposit all your money into my account"or would be saying,you must be Janchubsempa.I m not.
In a crowded city like Thimphu,dominated by lust and desire for wealth,inner Happiness is just a sack of air.People have all the sorts of facilities,infrastructure and modern architectures.Its in early morning in a small,yet reknowned temple like changangkha,located amidst a hill,which i call a little mountain,you wake up and a glimpse of scented pine in the early dawn,along with people of much contented minds and of older age,you feel life is much peaceful up there.Its a rare occassion.Health has become one of the serious issue in our populated city.Its atleast good that when you come for a physical exercise,you automatically gets connected with mother nature,and then you realize how beautiful and peaceful when our travelling mind gets controlled by a little spiritual and breath taking sceneries.Its otherwise call a happines,though for a short term.
What i have observed through hearings and of my own study is that,when you have enough wealth,sometimes its natural that we forget one of the most important priority of life,our inner happiness.I firmly believe,of course people need certain percentage of money to survive.Especially with friend,relatives,life in Thimphu is bit challenging for individuals who live independently.Today you visit friend's new born baby,tomorrow its someone's relative cremation rites,day after tomorrow,somewhere someone gets promoted to higher post.Then comes your electric power consumption,water charges,telephone bills,Tv rent,house owner running after you,your relatives need some amount from you to purchase a land somewhere in babesa.
On the other side,when you have handsome possession,you feel like having more.Its not a criticism but a concern that I have observed very few wealthy people tend to spend life in a very peaceful manner.Sharing is loving,when they tend to gain more they also become conscious that they have to surrender everything once the icy hands of death holds and grab them,they must leave behind everything ,including people to whom they are so attached.Most of us tend to lose the true sense of happiness.We always want to make our sons and daughter face up the world with much wealth,thereby we lose health to gain more and more.I m sure,if an individual karma or what sometimes called 'Lungten hasn't been inscribed on one's forehead',the possessions gathered by parents on uncle or aunts will not lead us to successful trail.Even in business,some people flourish like anything,while some even though clever and knowledgeable fail at the most.I m sure its always a matter of past's path that lead us to our destined dreams.Some successful in businness making,some in politics,some in relation making,some in problem solvings,negotiation,its after all individual's uniqueness and karmic actions that define us in distint ways.
In this fast moving world,a balance between materialism and spiritual connection is utmost an important philosophy inorder to channel a happiness in one's mind.An excessive wealth possession creates chaos and family troubles,even at worst leading to court cases and enemity even among the family members from great grand parents to their future generations.An individual is born with thier own kind of spoon written according to karmic justice and good deeds of the past.Our sons and daughters fate cant be predicted with our own belongings.Someone can be rich overnight,but he cant stand there longer if he isn't destined to become.Happiness is just a simple concept,when you feel within that you are satisfied with the world,and you know that you are very fortunate of existence,when you cant stop making someone's day,a good turn,inspite of your whatever conditions you are in and a smile on someone's face,you will earn the credit,thats the contentment not even medicine can give you for long term.
An educated higly learned husband,sends his wife for a degree course in abroad at his own expense.She comes up with good knowledge ,a degree and work experience,earns much better than her husband.Now she pays the credit by putting a divorce case.What happened to her,she meets someone much wealthier than her ex husband.Modern society had changed a lot.You can even desigh your own life's lab.But how long it would take a seed of happiness
to germinate and fully grow into long branches.
Some are forced by circumstances,some by intense desires,while most of us fail to architect happiness for our own good.In Thimphu,we build strong and good walls for our own security from neighbour.We don't want to interact with people nearby.We travel in luxurious cars.We dont want to walk.We pollute air,the environment with our junk deposits.We get introduced to different varieties of modern diseases such as cancer,gastritis,mental stresses,ulcers,piles,asthmas,tb,obesity,HIV aids.We want to have more late night partys,where we can breath fresh carbondioxide and carbonmonoxide.We dont want to unnecessarily spent time on true love,we lust for sex.We want to have more gamblings,dont want to spend time with our own children.We marry one wife,and finds a mistress somewhere.We become corrupt and dont mind for sending to jail.We return to our cold graves with dissatisfaction and regrets that would even haunt our spirits.
Even rural places have been affected with air of glamour.Most of agricultural land are now being sold like hot cakes,for exchange with Santafes,Prados,or Tucson,for the sake of construction of resorts,5stars,and private buildings.What will we eat if all our food sources are being cut from India one day.The root of happiness dies owing to lack of extreme side effects. I wish i had a son who can become a good monk,meditating and practising the dharma,while helping his old parents enlighting the light of happiness through mind controlling.But thats just a dream,i wont cry for it,because it would also be destined to deserving only.
In the end life is beautiful and i m satisfied,what i had felt i could atleast express in my little way.May your life be showered with happiness through your own reflections and shadows.If there isnt a shadow then i guess its high time to research the path we travel by.

from plucking stars to shedding tears...love's misery is yet life's valuable poetry

"If the only place where i could see you is in my dream,then i would sleep forever,"well more than that,what else, i would pluck a star for you,and plant a beautiful rose in sahara,script your name on the colors of rainbow....
hehe love has gone so much advanced for now.Just like our small country getting rapid urbanisation,from oral proposals to blue ink and white paper touching love letters,from electronic mail to sms,love cards,valentine greetings,cute gifts,roses,dinners,breath taking songs,partying,taking ride along sangaygang and lover's point,late long hour night calls,a chat on person.com and match meetings,what more all our films now are depicting the definition of love.
love is in the air everywhere.Heart is one of the magical organ,beautifully embedded inside the body.If handled with care just like money,it would be worth while,but on contrary,if mishandled,it would create a disaster.There are unique individuals who beautifully potrays all those happenings of love,the betrayals,trust,in a much spicy and thought provoking tales.
Yet Someone searches in bhutan times,"deki where are you,m sorry for my mistake",please call back to me and pick up the phone.Lonely hearts,"beautiful girl wants to date a tall handsome guy",please contact this number.I don't know,but its always true,love can happen anywhere.But i wonder how many people really value true love.
Now i must be true also there are also lots of impacts,when right meets a wrong.I see people not being true to words.Fake promises,thats why,modern love is bitterly sweet,much faster than bullet trains.I wonder how many people really keep true promises.for me,"i miss you sounds much better than,"i love you".i don't know how far you believe.But its however an individual's perspective.
Now lets come to concrete idea.From plucking stars to shedding tears,unheard cries,yet within someone's thought,its a valuable poetry.Life isn't perfect is old acronym,but it also makes a part of life's history unerased in individual's mind. Life goes on with much lessons and bold personality.From fragile mind and heart to experienced professional" betrayed one",yet you never lose who you are,and you would never fall down without your own consentment.From sugar heart to spicy individuals,you have learnt greater chapter of love and now inside your mind you have enough default vision of detecting a decent and defined love bird.That's you,The power of one.This will be another chapter and topic that every one carries ahead.
love is a beautiful art,and it always needs a right artist.Every artist has their own way of expressing their art.love is kid's fun game for children,an accompany and a refuge shelter,Love is a burden and hurdle to school going students,distraction to an academic performance,a matter of chance in finding freedom from studies for college mates,a second chance test for bachelor's personality before marriage,if a married couple seeks another Mr or mistress,its another story infact part II of life,Its about complicated heart.Its an indication of your heart controlling your mind.So better be watchful,ofcourse its also applicable but its more disheartening.
Animals in the nature too have a strong sense of love relationship.At the end what i have found is ,"its not by falling in love with someone,that ruins your life,but when you keep going with things in right track,its a balanced life,that one need not turn back to life with regrets,but with sense of contentment that you have made someone's day with good smiles on their face.So my moral is love the people who treat you right,forget the ones who do not.
Have a dedicated love,truth and trust.Thats it..cheer up!!

Another Day-The Wrong Downpour

Perhaps there might be some holes in the corner of sky.The stitches need to be carried out.Its been heavy down pour in bhutan.The rain started from last night and now it would continue till tomorrow midday according to Norwegian Meterological site.Its much foggy along the way especially when you get into a car and take a drive.I m sure the river might have changed its color somehow.School students along the way soaked with cold bath.While most people carry umbrella,its been muddy along the paths.Its 3:48pm and still looks like the sun gone beyond the horizon and night spreading her black garment.I was thinking that the blessed rainy day would be the last rain but it turn out to be the different one.I m sure this wrong time rain has not much significance to do with our farmers,except for Hydropower generation,the country's revenue .
In Paro,along the vales,most of the farmers have initially started the harvesting work.Fortunately,it was just beginning and carried out in smaller portion.Last time it was the H1N1,then the Earth Quake,then stormy winds followed by downpour.But lets hope we prepare for everything.Lets be aware all the time.Lets not lose faith in our beliefs.our forefathers have been brought up through harsh and turbulent atmosphere battling every hardships despite of having no modern technologies.Its now upto us whether our set of beliefs are slowly getting extinct as we step into another era of less of beliefs and more of scientific practicals.


Weather forecast for Thimphu (Bhutan), 2737 m.

Updated at 13:12. Next update is expected at 2:00.
source:Norway meterological
Institute.--->>www.yr.no

Thimphu: capital in Thimphu (Bhutan). Located at 27°28′59″N 89°35′59″E. The forecast shows local time for Thimphu.




Forecast for Thimphu Wednesday 07/10/2009

Midday 15:00 – 18:00
Heavy rain 10° Light breeze, 2 m/s from north-northwest
Heavy rain. Light breeze, 2 m/s from north-northwest. 0 mm precipitation.



Night 18:00 – 00:00
Heavy rain 11° Light air, 1 m/s from northwest
Heavy rain. Light air, 1 m/s from northwest. 44 mm precipitation.



Forecast for Thimphu Thursday 08/10/2009
Morning 06:00 – 12:00
Heavy rain 9° Light air, 1 m/s from north-northwest
Heavy rain. Light air, 1 m/s from north-northwest. 8 mm precipitation.

Midday 12:00 – 18:00
Heavy rain 11° Light air, 1 m/s from northwest
Heavy rain. Light air, 1 m/s from northwest. 22 mm precipitation.


Night 18:00 – 00:00
Partly cloudy 11° Light air, 1 m/s from west
Partly cloudy. Light air, 1 m/s from west. 0 mm precipitation.



Forecast for Thimphu Friday 09/10/2009
Morning 06:00 – 12:00
Partly cloudy 9° Light air, 1 m/s from west-northwest
Partly cloudy. Light air, 1 m/s from west-northwest. 0 mm precipitation.


Midday 12:00 – 18:00
Fair 15° Light breeze, 2 m/s from south
Fair. Light breeze, 2 m/s from south. 0 mm precipitation.

Night 18:00 – 00:00
Partly cloudy 13° Light breeze, 2 m/s from south-southeast
Partly cloudy. Light breeze, 2 m/s from south-southeast. 0 mm precipitation.




source:
Norway meterologicalInstitute
weblink:www.yr.no

A Soft Autumn Caress

One of God's most beautiful creations is the changing of the seasons. It’s a time that heals all things, both good and bad. As the sun rises and sets, I can feel autumn and winter approaching. My humble wish for this winter is a snowfall that will cleanse all the misfortunes of the upcoming year. I long to see our snow-capped mountains bathed in the golden rays of the sun.

I’m not rushing into the future; autumn is here, and the days are growing colder. Thankfully, there’s been no heavy rain or landslides on the Phuntsholing-Thimphu Highway, and we haven’t heard of any H1N1 or swine flu outbreaks. In Paro, although apple buds were damaged by hailstones last spring, we ended up with a good harvest. I hope for a smooth continuation of democracy, despite the challenges faced by villages in the far east. I trust that time will gradually heal these difficulties.

Life is often unpredictable, but we must prepare for whatever comes our way. While life can be tough at times, it’s a force beyond the reach of astrology, and it has a way of healing gently over time.

With autumn’s arrival, the paddy harvest is nearly upon us. I hope for a peaceful and successful harvest for all our hardworking farmers. Their efforts are crucial to our nation’s pride and the dream of food self-sufficiency, as we work to alleviate poverty.

Autumn is a beautiful season, with the earth blanketed in golden hues. At twilight, as the sun sets below the horizon, take a deep breath of the cool, crisp air. It’s a sign that autumn, like a gentle kiss on the cheek, is healing the wounds of our weary journeys.

A Garden within my Mind

Each morning, around 5:00 a.m., I follow my routine of rising from the warmth of my bed. I take a quick look out the window, where my gaze meets the drifting clouds over Phajoding. This sight has become my solace, offering relief from the day’s stress, the hectic traffic, and the noise of increasing vehicle congestion. Before I face the mess and remnants of my dreams, I pause, take a deep breath of fresh air, and savor these perfect, tranquil moments—they’re the highlight of my day.

Instead of fields, I see a growing number of construction sites and confusing road intersections. Despite having access to a variety of fast foods, 24-hour internet, modern conveniences, and a caring girlfriend, I still feel something is missing—my cherished home. On Saturdays, I wake up, have breakfast, and head back to my village in Paro. That’s my true remedy, my source of comfort and peace for my restless mind.

In the golden waves of autumn paddy, I find myself completely immersed and at peace. My mind, overwhelmed by the lush greenery and golden hues, feels connected to the familiar scent of home. This is where I was raised, and where I wish to spend my final days.

I wander through the mountains, searching for birds, delighting in sparkling brooks, and smiling shyly at the beauty around me. The turquoise Pachu River dances through the green valleys, and the willows gradually turn yellow. The gentle air, the rosy scent, and the sound of cicadas create moments of immense joy. These experiences are a perfect blend of history and nostalgia from my childhood.

Late at night, I often find myself crying in my dreams, longing for my beloved home. It has always been my constant companion, and its impact is deeply personal and hard to explain. It’s a secret place within me, a beautiful landscape that I hold dear. I envision it as a garden in my mind, and though I can’t show it to everyone, it remains a cherished part of me.

Even now, on weekends, I seek out the familiar comfort of home. I dream of it being an untouched sanctuary—free from cars, waste, and disturbances, a perfect retreat for contemplation and peace. This small, cozy wooden home nestled in the woods is what I consider my soul’s true healer—a secret I keep close to my heart.