Her role as an ambassador was to present gifts and the best food to the local mermaid, a tradition believed to bring peace, prosperity, and bountiful harvests to the village. Alongside her, three other girls competed, each showcasing their unique attributes. The village oracle, known for performing rituals, crafted colorful tormas (ritual cakes) to impress the mermaid. Dressed in a willow crown and her finest attire, my grandmother would join in the choir around the lake, where incense and music would make the waters dance. The event drew many spectators, reflecting the harmony between the villagers and nature.
In the months leading up to Paro Tshechu, young girls like my Angay would meticulously prepare for the celebration. The festival was not only a time to receive blessings but also a means of cleansing past sins. Each mask dance had its own significance, helping attendees overcome their fears and gain deeper understanding.
Angay Bou would climb the highest hill to gather the best resin from pine trees, ensuring she also collected bean sticks for her firewood. The resin would be used for a traditional makeup that she applied to her face, hands, and feet, maintaining this routine for three months. Her favorite ornament was a reddish coral necklace complemented by a cat's eye, adding a radiant glow to her skin. Her gold-carved betelnut box and Kushuthara kira gave her a distinct, butterfly-like appearance. On the full moon day, the resin would naturally peel off, revealing her refreshed face as she splashed it with clear spring water.
With family and relatives, she would prepare a delightful picnic featuring local delicacies like dried pork, seasoned red chilies, turnip leaves, and gashamos (laughing mushrooms), making it a memorable feast.
These memories, vividly shared by my grandmother, stand out as some of her most treasured moments from her youth. For me, Paro Tshechu was also a special time, filled with childhood joys such as watergun play, gambling games, and various festive activities. It’s a significant event for Parops and people across Bhutan, who come together to seek blessings, especially on the Thongdrol day.
As we continue to embrace the blessings of happiness, peace, prosperity, and unity, I hope that future generations will cherish and uphold these rich traditions. They represent a vital connection to our heritage and the immeasurable wealth of our country.
Happy Paro Tshechu to all! May you receive blessings of joy and good health, And may you continue to embody kindness and humanity!
